Its absolutely true, fourteen days from now you could have a thriving network of up to seven genuine new friends...
none of which are in your life right now…
I’ve heard it said that if you’re feeling stuck too long in one spot, its best to throw a grenade into your life and jump.
So if, for whatever reason you’ve taken a look at your life and found yourself stuck with, at best, a handful of fair-weather friends - then consider the friend-maker accelerator system to be your grenade…
With it’s infallible three-step process it will steamroll over all those internal objections and reduce your goal back down from looking like a mountain to being a molehill.
You know.. objections like:
🙊 People my age already have full lives and established friend groups and wont have time for me...
🙊 Most people are just self-serving and not genuine, the odds of finding a real friend are too long...
🙊 I’m shy and don’t know how to connect with people so they move on before they get to know me...
🙊 I don’t feel that I have much to offer as a friend so ultimately any new friendship will be short-lived...
🙊 Where would I even begin to start looking for new friends…
While it may be true that your school years were the easiest time to find and make friends (as well as enemies) - because we were literally surrounded by our peers and our interests were still quite generalised…
Which means the connections and friendships we made at this age were based more on circumstance than genuine compatibility...
You may find, as I did, that during those formative years the few really enduring friendships you made where those based on shared interests.
And herein lies the key to real friendship opportunities as adults
...when you know how to find them. And more importantly, when you know how to convert those opportunities into friendships and more.
This is the real secret gateway to life...
...the gateway of friendship that can become a relationship, that can then become a life partner and finally a family.
And the secret behind the secret..?
Forming friendships and relationship that are secure and equally balanced.
>> NOT ONES where one side takes more out of the friendship than the other.
>> NOT ONES where one partner brings more to the table and holds the power, leaving the other to feel insecure.
The friend-maker system enables you to foster the kind of equal friendships that hydrate your mental health, and identify those that are likely to turn into fair weather friendships instead.
